No figureheads, no lobbyists, no demagogues... just real people talking about their lives.
 
 
 

Put YOUR State Online!

Tom Lang
Tom Lang, Director

KnowThyNeighbor.org

Our Story

KnowThyNeighbor.org was created in the fall of 2005 in response to an initiative petition to ban same-sex marriage in Massachusetts. It was the brainchild of Tom Lang, a gay married man, and Aaron Toleos, a straight married man.

Tom and Aaron saw the petition as an act of violence against the gay community and KnowThyNeighbor.org was their way to draw attention to the issue and provide a platform for gay activism at a very grassroots level.

In December of 2005, KnowThyNeighbor.org published the names of all 148,000+ petition signers and altered the dynamic of the petition process in several important ways:

The GLBT leadership often lets fundraising and legislative lobbying efforts take precedence over grassroots, neighbor-to-neighbor advocacy. But a face-to-face conversation with someone you know can sometimes be the most powerful agent of change. KnowThyNeighbor.org exists to make sure those conversations happen!

Start a KTN in Your State!

On June 12, KTN Florida was launched by the Christ Church of Peace in Jacksonville and expansion plans to other states are already underway. If you want to be part of the KnowThyNeighbor.org movement, contact us today.

You don't need to be part of an existing gay rights organization... you just need to be a regular citizen ready to stand up for equal rights. In most states, any citizen can get the list of petition signers directly from the Secretary of the State. Let us help get YOU started!

Contact us today:

Tom Lang, Director
(978) 335-0477
tom@knowthyneighbor.org

Aaron Toleos, Director
(978) 821-4620
aaron@knowthyneighbor.org

Find out how to contact us for more information.